Two eyes with a pale blue color… An innocent gaze that melts the heart… A curious expression and a face that exudes purity… Such innocence that brings a smile to one’s face, a feeling of happiness… A pair of eyes… I am talking about the puppies that our neighborhood dog gave birth to a month ago. All of their eyes and gazes are different, but the one thing they have in common is innocence, purity, the taste of baklava, the desire to be cuddled, the feeling of closing your eyes with joy and happiness when you hold them in your arms…
Yes, animals’ eyes look so innocent…
Especially their puppies…
Just like every creature’s offspring…
Just like babies…
A feeling that takes you away from all kinds of troubles…
Innocence…
It’s called the Real Look!
In this life, there are people and there are two kinds of looks…
The real and the fake…
The real look comes from the heart…
You feel it to your very core…
It touches your heart…
You find peace, you are happy, you feel valued…
Because it truly values you.
The face is connected to every cell of the heart…
Even the slightest feeling in the heart is reflected in the gaze…
When the heart that owns that gaze wants to do something good for you;
When you look at someone, you understand, you feel, you comprehend what is going on in their heart…
Do you remember that look?
Have you ever seen it?
Do you remember those moments?
In fact, there are no people with genuine or fake looks.
There are people who sometimes look genuine and sometimes fake…
Sometimes genuine, sometimes fake looks…
A genuine gaze is one that touches your heart…
You understand and feel that the words coming out of a person’s mouth are sent from the heart…
Even if you don’t understand, your heart feels it…
Because genuine people know each other well…
Just as fake people know each other well…
Words that come from the heart for your benefit are sweet, and you enjoy hearing them…
There are also words that are for your benefit but taste bitter…
Words you don’t enjoy hearing…
Even the bitter words that come from the mouth of a person with a genuine gaze taste sweet to you, and you accept every word…
Why?
Because they flow from the heart for your benefit…
What is in their heart is in their words…
There is also a gaze above this. A trait not found in everyone…
Because it is difficult to cultivate and requires a price…
A trait earned through time and patience.
When you look at it, it resembles beautiful needlework…
There was a pair of eyes, which I have only witnessed in one person in my lifetime…
The constant state of a genuine gaze…
Mastery of the genuine gaze…
When speaking with someone, the eyes would smile…
As if all the smiles had escaped into that gaze…
Regardless of who was across from them, the person being looked at felt as though they were sapphire.
Such a peculiar gaze…
Even if you don’t know what he was thinking or feeling as he looked at the person opposite him, the feeling he evoked from the outside was this: there was a very valuable stone in front of him at that moment, and his gaze was focused solely on that stone…
As if he had no problems in life, as if he were very comfortable, as if he were the happiest person in the world…
Eyes that seem to see that person as the only thing that matters in this world…
At that moment, there is an incredible flow of consciousness and emotion…
As if a rainbow were stretching from the eyes that gaze to the eyes that are gazed upon…
That sincerity arouses a little curiosity…
Sincere looks and words…
And their owner…
So what is a fake look like?
A fake look is one that makes your heart shiver…
What is in the heart is different from the words that come out of the mouth…
You understand a fake look, you feel it…
You understand and feel that the words coming out of the person’s mouth are not sent from the heart, that they are expressed differently…
Even if you don’t understand, your heart feels it…
Because the fake ones recognize each other…
Just as the real ones recognize each other well…
You feel it down to your bones…
It makes your heart shiver…
You feel restless, unhappy, and unappreciated…
Because they really don’t appreciate you.
The face is connected to the heart, down to its smallest cell…
Even the slightest feeling in the heart is reflected in the gaze…
The heart that owns that gaze, which has no good thoughts for you; when it looks at you, you understand, you feel, you figure out what is going on in that heart…
Do you remember that gaze?
Have you ever seen it?
Do you remember those moments?
Actually, there are no people with real gazes or fake gazes.
There are people who sometimes look with a genuine gaze and sometimes with a fake one…
Sometimes genuine, sometimes fake—the gaze that forms…
If you ask how I recognize a genuine gaze,
You can find the measures in Experiential Design Theory…
With the intention of being able to see with a genuine gaze throughout one’s life…
With the hope of deserving genuine gazes…
Stay with love…